Is My Mom a W h o r e? Or is it just Human Nature? (INTERESTING READ)?

Question

Okay so, the word M I L F (separated it because I think it's prohibited to spell together on this) really bothers me. I think a mother should be a respected women because of all the things she's gone through as a woman, and because she brought life into this world. There are all kinds of mother's out there. Religious mothers, serious mothers you wouldn't even dare call a m i l f, and then they're really open moms. I always thought my mom was an angel. Even now that I know what sex is, I still picture her as a virgin angel because I refuse to see her riding, and sucking d i c k. My step dad's (now) d i c k, and the d i c k of the father of my two younger siblings. My mom is like...religious but is also very open about what's natural. I know my mom does all that freaky stuff, and most likey even more. But I refuse to see her like that because one, it's weird, and two, I'd feel ashamed of her. Even though sex is a natural thing, I would still be ashamed because THAT'S MY MOMMY! You just don't see your mom being freaky everyday, so it's weird! I know this makes no sense and it's taking forever to get to a point here, but, I'm just saying this because I came across a website where the blogger had dozens of pictures of his wife, and other wives with CHILDREN, naked, sucking him off, and riding him and most of them were religious. They had crosses around their necks, and looked as innocent as can be. I was so confused and just shocked! I was only thinking to myself, if this is what these mother's do, what does my mom do? O.O Ohh my god, I scared my brain for life!!! Is it just human nature for a woman you think is a beautiful, religious angel to be a total freak in bed...or is she just fake in the real world, and becomes a total w h o r e at night? Is this how I'm gonna have to be with my husband? O.O (I'm an 18 year old virgin by the way). Like...I consider myself very saint-like when it comes to sex because I've never done anything. I mean, is being a w h o r e in the bedroom what's expected of us women? Even if we're sweet, innocent, and God fearing in real life? It's like living a double life! I'm so confused, I need guidance. PLEASE HELP.

Answer 1

Your problem appears to be that you view sex as something bad and dirty. Society tries to socialize those views to a point, primarily to control unwed pregnancy and std spread. But sex is natural, healthy for the body, healthy for relationships.



It is always weird to think about your parents having sex, but you should NOT be ashamed of her. Even from a religious stand point, sex is a gift to the married couple.



Of course men want to have a good time in the bedroom. You are only a whore if you are spreading it around. Nothing wrong at all with getting freaky and having a good time with your spouse.



You speak about religion. Do you know how many religious figures from the Bible had harams? What exactly do you think they did with all those women? Do you consider them shameful and dirty?

Answer 2

I thought you were going to be a boy who saw his mother on a porn website and wanted to have sex with her. Good thing I have enough of an attention span to read all this stuff. Having sex won't make you a whore. Your mother is married, anyway. I'm guessing that you're Catholic, just from the words you used. Are you maybe having some stress in your life that is causing you to blow this out of proportion? Perhaps some trouble with a young man? Just don't do anything you're uncomfortable with, anything you know you will regret, and you should be okay.

Answer 3

Good initially, it is rather anxious that you've so many "...." in your text. 2d of all, if he left you on account that of some silly stuff like that, you will have to be pleased that you just are not with him anymore. That is overreacting at it's first-rate. If you happen to hid matters from him although, he would feel that you simply might be hiding more things from him. This may most likely harm him. He appears solution to jealous although. It's not healthful to stick with any one like that. He could make you believe designated now, but sooner or later you could possibly develop to hate it. In addition, the buddy telling you that they will slap you if they see you. Well that could be a hazard which is illegitimate round right here. What i'm looking to say is that you just preserve announcing that he makes you suppose particular and excellent and stuff, be he seems like a primary case of douchebag to me. Transfer on. Get any individual better whoa ctually cares about how you feel. P.S. A s-l-u-t, a w-h-o-r-e and a prostitute are individuals who sleep with numerous persons. Since you haven't slept with anybody else, I particularly don't see how this applies. I am guessing that your ex and his friends are not to shrewd both.