Is one born alpha? Or can you become one from beta?

Question

Although I hate to admit it, I'm the prime example of a beta male. I feel more comfortable to follow than to lead and feel intimidated when I see a guy who's more successful than I am and prefer to avoid than to face a confrontation.

Question is, when you are above the age of 21 where your personality has been long been shaped (and is very difficult to change it), can you ever become a true alpha (as opposed to pretending to act like one), or would I have to live with my beta status for the rest of my life?

Answer 1

Gonna be blunt here, people that use the terms "beta" or "alpha" are infact "beta" themselves or huge aholes.





So please don't ever use those terms again, because it makes you sound pretty stupid, coming from a chick's perspective.



Now back to your original question, you can mold yourself however way you like. You can be strong, independent or submissive and indifferent. It's all about you dude, nothing is set in stone. People always change their personalities and you can too. Just don't change YOU so you can feel this acceptance by other people k?

Answer 2

Find something that you're best at.



While there's always someone that's better than you, - claim your (geographic) territory.

Answer 3

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