What is the best revenge in life, and what's the best way to handle people who are negative or don't like you?

Question

It is often said that success is the best revenge. Is success, happiness, and being well off really the best revenge? Also, how do you handle, the best way possible, people who are negative, players, and people who just generally do not like you?

I come across many people who just don't like me on a rather daily basis, and I'm sure if most of you paid attention or really opened your eyes, you'd find that you have quite a few bickering negative nancys around you as well.

So what is techincally the best way to handle these rather, depressing and miserable people?

I chose to basically be happy, successful, care-free, don't buy into ANYTHING. Scr*w classist, elitist, or materialistic people, don't buy into anyone, who cares about who's rich and powerful, or bla bla bla.

I chose to basically be completely thrilled being me, dressing lavishly, basically just acting like everyday is a holiday and I'm a star, and this seems to piss people off the most.

Any advice?

Answer 1

Revenge never gets you anywhere. Why waste you're time being mad and wanting revenge when you could just forget about it and live you're life. If some one doesn't like you forget about it and if there talking bad about you don't worry because they will get theirs... SHORT STORY: Lady was being very rude to my mom and she just forgot about it. Shes knows better than to let it bother her. The next time she ran into the lady, the lady was telling her friends about how she almost got hit by a car. Or it went something like that but you get the moral of the story.

Answer 2

Whats the best revenge you ask? There is no good revenge. Revenge means you have accepted defeat.

Answer 3

Keep up the good work. Life Is Good. Let the critics write what they wanna write, it's all inside. Whatever you want to do, as long as you enjoy yourself and what you do, screw the downers, you don't need them.

Answer 4

Be and individual! who cares what people think of you? you say you are care free then you shouldnt care what people think and there are going to be people that dont like you because of that which I find absurd and the best way to handle these people is by ignoring them! maybe they are mad because they cant be individuals like you?