why do people always hate me?

Question

sooooo i'm in water polo and i made some friends BUT recently one of my friends started to act different. whenever i would try to talk to him, he would just give me a dirty look and just walk away. at first i thought it was just how he is but then i would observe him and he acts TOTALLy different towards other people, he would be all nice and stuff but to me it's different. what did i do wrong? i even gave this guy a ride to one of the games, lend him my cell phone to call his parents, and fed him. i feel like i did something and that i'm a really bad person. i don't know what to do. i'm in high school going into the 10th grade. i try to be contained and not be all showy and arrogant so i can make friends but it doesn't seem that way. *sigh* i guess i deserve to be alone.

Answer 1

I know this is not understood by most of the people bt i would say:

'DONT LET PEOPLE TO BE YOUR PRIORITY OR THEY WILL SEE U AS AN OPTION'

next thing is stay cool, and dont think just u need them, they also need u.

Try to have some attitude(not more) and prove yourself something.

I know that its not easy to leave a group of friends,but u can do many thing so they come to u on their own.

Mail me if u want some more tips.

Answer 2

Maybe you said something about him and someone else told him? Id say you have to ask him did you do something wrong and then work it out from there or maybe hes not worth it what ever you do dont suck up to him just find new people and make him jelous

Answer 3

Maybe somebody made something up about you and told him. If you're fairly new to the group, some of the others could resent you being there for no reason other than that you're fairly new to the gorup

Answer 4

Do you have mutual "friend(s)" with this person? If so it might be that this "friend" said something bad regarding you to this guy, something that may not have been true. I had that happen to me once... one of my friends backstabbed me and told lies to my other friend to make that person turn against me.



That's probably not your case, but if I were you, I would have a heart-to-heart with this guy. Just a friendly, quick chat and ask him about it.