How can I acheive good Karma?

Question

Lately I have been in this repititive rut of consistently lying about pretty much anything and everything (I think I may have an issue with that. Is there an illness or something in which I would compulsively lie?) I have also been doing unfair things to my friends, and cheating on my boyfriend.
I have done a lot of things that I am ashamed of, and it seems like bad things keep coming ot me out of Karma. So then I continue the cycle and keep doing bad things.
I just need some help.
How can I clean up my act and acheive better Karma?

Answer 1

You know what you are doing is wrong. Just keet doing the right tthing. Start with teling your bf the truth. Be prepared. If he breaks up with you, you know you deserved it.. and acept it!.

Answer 2

Like every other compulsion, you need to get professional help.

The first step is admitting your disorder (compulsive lying) the second step is knowing you want to stop, and the third thing is getting help. This is the only way you'll get better. Now you know you don't want bad Karma, you're feeling guilt for cheating and lying to the people you love, that's a good thing. That means you're on the right track to change. If you're religious, seek out help from your church, as well.

Answer 3

Give as much of yourself as possiable.. Yhe further we get from ourselfes and our worldy and monatary posessions the happier and wiser we become.. I guess I should be using I instead of we.. Because I am sure this works for me. I would think it would work for others. I seem to be most unhappy when I am looking at how miserable my life is and what i would need to make it better.. More money, a better job, a new car, a bigger house, more vacation, a maid, etc.. When I am helping others who are less fortunate I sem to leave that place and am able to see just how good I have it.. Sure it dosen't last forever and I still slip back to the poor me's but it is nice to have a place to go..

Answer 4

What one does is not going to give oneself guilt or exhilration is called "sama" equipoise state,but when one feels bad or guilty then something is not ok. Better still is to dovetail it to some one higher like Radha Krishna,in sanaatan dhama{hinduism} and in some others it is repentance,but this does not work. be a witness when one does something,and being aware or "saakshi bhava" it will go away. Ethics deals with good and bad,it differs in different cutures what is good and what is bad so who will decide but our own self feels and tells us what is hurting us is certainlyl not only harming us this even medical science accepts it gives us mental scars,etc. so why not work as if we were not working for ourselves,but here one has to be careful we cannot throw our nonsense to God or some higher up and get away we will suffer psychosomatically i.e.,. bodily and also through the mind Feel like looking at others who are in need,help them,and always think you have more and this is best achieved by seeing who are having less than us. etc. ;

Answer 5

there is no good or bad karma



karma is karma - karma is debt



if you do good deeds for another and they owe you that is karma to - debt



i think the first thing you could do is have it be ok with the way that it is in your life - the way that you have it - the way you are doing things - your choices - they are yours they are ok. THEY are really ok! Shame is not bad...shame is just shame. Ur are great even though you think what u did was not ok!





That would be my comment sweetheart!

Answer 6

There is only one way to achive pure Karma my friend & that is understand that in every action of yours God's will is prevailing & you are an instrument through which Karma happens. Our claim as" me & mine" is the resistance to pure Karma. Understand the universal process of Thought, Action & Result which is pure till you claim it as mine and the universal become personal & impure. This is the only way to achive pure Karma. Step aside & let Divine function through you without Resistance.

Answer 7

Hmm Maybe you should go back and tell the truth to those you lied to. You should repay your friends for the unfair things you have done and you should tell your bf that you cheated on him and that you are really sorry. You need to feel bad for the mistakes you made and apologize for them. You need to mean it when you apologize. Hope this helps.

Answer 8

you can acheive good karma by being good to others treating people right, doing the right thing, help others etc. bad karma comes when you do the wrong thing it goes with that old saying what goes around comes around!

Answer 9

"I bow down to the TRUE self in you" if you want good karma you need to be real to yourself and other so if you want to do good things for you from now on you have to come clean to the bad things you have done and ask for forgiveness then you will feel a heavy burden lift from your soul.

Answer 10

I have a 12 yr. old son that lies and steals. I just keep asking him "Is that the way that you would want others to treat you?" Before you do these bad things ask your self that. Then don't. Makes thing alot easier for everybody.

Answer 11

Well, realizing your issues is the first step.

You can achieve good Karma by doing good. You are completely in control of what you do. Good luck!

Answer 12

Stop lying, be a better friend, stp cheating on your bf. Basically, become a good person, because right now..you aren't being one.

Answer 13

Stop doing bad things

Answer 14

forget the bads you have done.



start being good to others or atleast dont trouble others or hurt them



and stop thinking about KARMA. only what you feel about yourself is much more important

Answer 15

Try to control yourself whne u want to do this kind of stuff..

Help out people more and Do nice stuff once in while...



Or just ask ure parents for help

Answer 16

Do good things without expecting anything in return

Answer 17

You sound like you might have borderline personality disorder. If I were you I would find a psychiatrist I trust and talk to him.

Answer 18

Doing good actions and good things, obaying elders and be nice to all creatures

Answer 19

clean up your life and do good things !!! clean up your mind and actions and do good for others and good karma will return to you

Answer 20

Forgive all liars for the rest of your life when they lie to YOU.

That'll do it.

Answer 21

stop lying and cheating. simple as that. possibly asking for forgiveness as well.

Answer 22

This is easy STOP FU*KING UP. That's how to be a better person.

Answer 23

It's too late, give up!!

Answer 24

Do good