Why is it that men find it appealing to refer to women as BITCHES?

Question

I am 30 and I have never been called a ***** before, until recently... The man I proclaim to love for the past 13yrs. and he is also the father of my 3 children. Lately he has been calling me out of my name. This hurts me a great deal because I have fought men for using that word towards my sisters. I find it to be so disgusting. I'm aware that it is a commonly used word nowadays but, this word I think should not be used so lightly. I mean these women are mothers, daughters, sisters, &wives and everyone deserves to be treated with respect and there is no respect in the word *****!!! I would like to hear from men and women on this subject.

Answer 1

You forgot the word "some". Not all men do that. I wouldn't. It's disgusting. I don't care how popular that word gets, it's disrespectful.



Basically it boils down to a bunch of young guys not respecting their girlfriends, friends who are girls, wives, etc. And of course, that implies that they don't respect themselves either.



Your own husband/father of your children calls you that? Wow. Ouch. I don't know what to say, other than that is very sad. What? He's trying to be hip? God. How old is he if you already have 3 children. How pathetic.



It is pretty common, but it's also common within certain bounds. I can't imagine any of my friends using that word, although I hear it time to time being used by others, like street kids.



Your man has some explaining to do. Ask him if he'd call his mother that, or if you have a daughter, his daughter.



You've really got a problem here, so sorry to hear about it. Good luck. There are people behind you.

Answer 2

Hmm, well if he said it in a joking manner, and this isn't the first time he's said it, then I think you don't need to worry. You can call him just as much, to make it even. However, if he was scowling when he said it, and sounded sincere, then I think you should ignore him for a while. If he tries to talk to you, pretend he's not there. If he asks you what's the matter with you, tell him "I'm a bitc*, remember?". That'll clue him in. Works for me! I don't take it into much consideration when people call me a bitc*. I find it funny, because people are being a bitc* themselves when they say stuff like that. So don't let it get to you, because he's just as bad. He might just be joking, so don't worry about it too much. But as usual, there is a limit to how far one can joke. Hope this helped! :)

Answer 3

I think your man shouldn't be saying that to you most of all I mean I some bitches bitches but when It comes to the mother of your children a man should have more respect then that and just call the by their name or whatever she likes being called.

Answer 4

Only disrespectful or ignorant people refer to others by that word. But, really, it's more of a joke now. I know that I am guilty of calling both men and women that (only in a 'joking' way)



It's just so damn commonplace now, that it doesn't seem to hold the same gravity that it used to.



But, I'd talk to him about this, if he knows that it hurts you, why would he do it?

Answer 5

Well, yeah this has become a bit common nowadays. I think its just men trying to show that they still have power over women. They do not want women to be equal with them, and know that this word degrades women. Not saying this is all men, but this word has been used so lightly alot. Guys tend to think that a woman is a ***** if they do not do as they please.

Answer 6

A lot of men are jerks. However, I'm a man and I would never use that word because it's degrading and wrong. Everyone deserves to be treated with respect. Sexist and racist terms should never be used lightly, as it only perpetuates them. Tell him he's being sexist, immature and inappropriate.

Answer 7

Your right, it is totally disrespectful if you haven't done anything to deserve such abuse. Just because you mother your children is no great reason for respect however, each married woman, needs to maintain a relationship with their husband and if they do not they deserve the verbal abuse. It wasn't so long ago that physical abuse was not seen as improper in such cases.

Answer 8

I am 28yo , married with a child and have never used that word when referring to someone that I love or care about.

I believe the priority that this country has put on television,radio,and other media are to blame for this . Also , I believe if your man was a respectable man that went to services on Sunday ..... he would not say this anymore.

Answer 9

He needs to get an aducation A ***** is a female dog But men say that to make the women look like the lower sex but they don't realize if it comes out of their mouths they make themselves look like the lower sex and the ARE

Answer 10

If women are going to allow men to call them names like that (and believe me, some women seem to think it's a term of endearment), then men are going to keep it up. Every woman has to decide for herself to have a Zero Tolerance policy for disrespect. Until that happens, there will always be morons who think disrespecting women is a way to show how tough they are.

Answer 11

Brings back the animal side to man. Referenced to each other as "dog" also does this. Plus snoop dogg says it and hes a v.i.p (very important pimp) from the 2 1 3.

Answer 12

Men are dogs. Therefore, they are all sons of bitches.

Your man is not setting a good example for the kids that's for sure.

Answer 13

The men who refer to women as this, they are not men, they are still little boys, kids, so they do not deserve to be in a relationship if this is how they chose to treat their partner.

Answer 14

i find it very disrespectful of men to refer to women as bitches, i think men that do that have ill feelings toward women, but men who do that r not real men they r punks,they have no values or morals

Answer 15

I have never called a woman that. I think that word is just as repulsive as the N word.

Answer 16

Don't get ur panties all in a bunch. It is just popular culture. Eg: this is my ***** Jane. If you don't like your significant other referring to you in this way then tell him about it. If he continues to do so, begin calling him your walking prick in public. This should get him to stop. lol

Answer 17

Because some of us are jerks. Actually most of us are but not me I'm sorry if anyone has ever offended you

Answer 18

Your husband isn't a man. He is human trash. Tell him I said so.

Answer 19

I have been called a ***** b4..................... but i just kicked him in the balls lol back in like the 5 grade

Answer 20

REAL MEN DONT..... It is rude to refer to a Woman in that manner.

Answer 21

I think it makes them feel way better?





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Answer 22

You grew up and became the same ***** that your mother was. Something you swore that you'd never do!!!

Answer 23

do you know why the woman crossed the road?





it don't matter,the bitchshould've never left the kitchen!



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Answer 24

start calling him ba stard, see what he says then

Answer 25

I DONO BUT I PPERSONLY HATE IT IT IS SO RUDE WERE NOT DOGS WERE (MOST OF US ANYWAYS)ARE SOPHISTACATED

Answer 26

Real men don't.

Answer 27

Because women let them do it, thats why!

Answer 28

the same reason we refer to them as assholes...just something we do and they do as well

Answer 29

We are dogs!

Answer 30

Cuz you alls is nothing but beatches

Answer 31

honey please believe me when i tell you that not all men that way .

Answer 32

What a bastard!

Answer 33

Because most are.

Answer 34

thats how men are......RUDE