Am i an awful person?

Question

okay my ex boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend. i forgave her but is it awful that they have been going out for 3 months compared to mine and his 3 years together that he cheated on her yesterday she came in school crying and saying he cheated on her. but i felt like it was good that she finally relized

Answer 1

she deserved it after what she did to you. The fact that you forgave her shows that you are in fact a great person and he is a dog.

Answer 2

Well, she sort of should have seen it coming. Any guy (or girl) who cheats with you, on their current partner, is very likely to cheat again. It's simple logic. You're not a bad person, you forgave your best friend and now the two of you can move on and find someone (separately) who isn't an asshole.

Answer 3

Chicks before *****.



Okay, if he cheated on you with her then most likely he will cheat on her as well.



So it was going to happen.



Are you a bad person?



I don't think so.



I mean THEY cheated on you in the first place AND YOU FORGAVE.



So SHE probably must HAVE realized how you felt.



=)

Answer 4

I feel that you may be a little "bad", at best. Yes, it was horrible for your boyfriend to cheat on you. Yes, it was horrible for your friend to get cheated on too. But is it right to feel good when the same thing happened to you?

Answer 5

If I were you, then I'd probably feel the same way.

She's getting a taste of her own medicine.



You should have broken off contact with your ex and your best friend.

Best friends don't date your ex, don't like your boyfriend, and least of all make out with YOUR boyfriend.

Answer 6

You're not an awful person,your friend was and she's a right *****! I think this kind of friend is not worth to have,so get it of her!for good!

Answer 7

No, I think a lot of people would feel the way you did. Totally normal IMO, so not an awful person at all :)

Answer 8

she doesn't seem like such a good friend for sneaking around with your boyfriend. and your boyfriend isnt such a good guy either. i'd leave em both and find new honest people

youre totallt not an awful person. justing timberlake was right; what goes around comes around

Answer 9

What exactly did you do wrong? Have some fun by calling the guy a cheating a**hole in front of his new gf.

Answer 10

No!!you are not an awful person!

what goes around comes around

Answer 11

your not the bad person here they are and you need to get rid of them both. and yeah it is good that she relized that hes a deuce. cuz now she knows how you felt.

Answer 12

no not at all sometimes people take advantage of people when they are nice to them and when something bad happends to that person just sit back and enjoy because their is no better feeling then getting back at someone and you didnt even have to lift a finger

Answer 13

no your not a bad person... what goes around comes around, she deserved it 100 fold

now perhaps the two of you will give your heads a shake and drop losers that cheat on you :)

Answer 14

Not awful! Just normal! You are a good person!

Answer 15

No, your not awful. its natural to feel that the same thing happend to me and my friend. i gave her sympathy though and comorted her. i stayed friends with her to. i think you shouldnt let the guy get between you two. forget him and move on oth of you can do better im sure

Answer 16

No. What goes around comes around. The minute she messed with him, she should of realized that was a possibility.

Answer 17

Yes, it probably is awful your happy your friend was cheated on. But that's human right, being happy that a guy that cheated on you also cheated on someone else?



anyways, yah, you are awful.

Answer 18

i would have felt the same. your not a bad person you just felt hurt and wanted someone else to be hurtung because you did. but i would rub it in her face after she just got dumped.



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Answer 19

i don't think your an awful person.

being your best friend, it was a terrible thing she did to you, and not to be rude, i think she somewhat deserved that.

she saw the light so to speak?



hope you don't take it to offense, and everything works out between you and your friend :)

Answer 20

You're probably just relieved that he didn't prefer her to you and that he treated you guys the same way. There's nothing really wrong with that.

Answer 21

Well what did she expect? Cheaters never change. Good for you for forgiving her though, I don't think I would have been able to trust someone like that again.

Answer 22

no yr not because u continued to be friends with her she probably feels awful or she will and never do it again to you or anyone else unless shes a whore

Answer 23

she shouldn't have cheated with your boy friend, it's probably natural to feel good about her understanding how you felt. you should talk to her about it though. and make sure you don't rub it in.

Answer 24

chances are you are not a good person

do you fallow the 10 commandments

have u ever lied, stolen, looked at a guy lustfully, etc.??

Answer 25

How the heck did you forgive her?Everyone of my friends that stabbed me in the back and i forgave them... stabbed me in the back yet again. People seldom change.... LEARN THAT LESSON!!!!

Answer 26

No, your not an awful person.



What you are feeling is naturally human, and to supress these feelings would do no good.

Answer 27

no cuz she did it to u and hurt u i know that sounds bad and mean but its the truth and that guy isnt wrth nothin if hes gonna b like that

Answer 28

No you're not bad.. your ex is just a player.. and your friend is mean :O

Answer 29

No you're not an awful person.

Answer 30

no because karma is a *****



it was coming to her one way or another

dunt worry same boat here

Answer 31

no, you're not a bad person, you just feel good that it happened to someone else and not just you. everyone feels like that.

Answer 32

she should have known that he would have done the same to her. karmas a *****. dont feel bad! jus laugh in your head

Answer 33

NO you're not "awful" i have a better word. But i'll not say.

Answer 34

No, you're not a bad person for thinking that.

Answer 35

You're not awful. He was a player. She should have trusted you before him.

Answer 36

no! you should have told her "if he cheated on me, what made you think he wouldnt do the same to you."

Answer 37

No you're human, any normal person would feel that way.

Answer 38

No. What goes around comes around....

Answer 39

wtf, why are u still friends with her, dont take that crap, no one deserves to be treated like that especially from a best friend, she doesnt deserve to be ur best friend, ur no awful person i think we all agree with u that she deserved it

Answer 40

psh you should ditch both of them you arnt a horible person but they are..

Answer 41

no, your not a bad person to feel that way. its normal

Answer 42

No youe are not a bad person. =)

Answer 43

no your not its normal to act like that we are humons were not perfect!

Answer 44

nope

now she's knows about karma

Answer 45

Who cares, drama is worthless.

Answer 46

I would simply respond to her, "What did you learn?"

Answer 47

nope

Answer 48

no--what goes around comes around- only harder

Answer 49

NOOO. Thats what she gets.. ITS KARMA!!!

Answer 50

yes

Answer 51

she had it coming

Answer 52

your cool

Answer 53

no your not

Answer 54

No!

Answer 55

no!!!! shes just a *****!!!