Did you ever feel like you are the only one who is not cool in this world?

Question

I do,
Because I suck at so many things (and I dont want to realize where I am good at),
My Persian and Urdu sucks (although I tried so little to revive my skills in both)
I have really "weak" skin which burns if under the sun for 10 mins
I have identity trouble (I dont know which country I am from, I mean I do but dont know if i should call myself as one)
I had a moronic haircut few days ago and i havent got over it yet
I can remember some hard stuff and yet forget my own cell no.(in fact I saved it in my own phonebook)

What is causing me to be so pessimistic lately? Why am i not seeing a brighter side of my own life?

help me!!!

Answer 1

yes, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. your just looking on all the negative parts or sides of your life....just look at the positive and good things about you,and just stop worrying about those kinda things, and you'll be ok. Just remember, u ARE good at something, and you should try to find out what that is, insteatd of holding back.

about the skin burning in the sun, thats ok lol, some people just have sensative skin. my friend stary in the sun a little bit, and she turns totally red, ur not the only one. u are persian?? then u ARE persian. dont say that ur not..why do u say that anyways....and the hair will grow bak lol....

anyways what im trying to say is, just dont worry about those things and think about all the good things u have in life....

P.S im persian, too! hehe :D ♥

Answer 2

Why dont you focus on the positive side of your life,,,be a little grateful to god...yes...see roughly around 75% of what you states is temporary



You seem proud to be persian....

your hair will grow in time

LOL its get funnier each time...your cell number should automatically be saved in your phonebook



Im not sure what makes you feel pessimistic really, but i hope you get over it.



Edit: Oh and if it helps you...im not really good at urdu....or Arabic either...how i envy my father.

Answer 3

lol..funny,tht sounds exactly like me..i've the same trouble, including the haircut(fortunately the headscarf covers that one)..i guess we never actually realise the value of our possessions,until we lose them..like they say,"absense makes the heart grow fonder"..we all feel like nothing goes right sometime or the other..little do we know that all this is just a small part of God's big plan,that these may simply be a "moment's pressure for a lifetime pleasure".right now,you could probably do something like list down stuff you ought to be grateful for, or how things could be a lot worse but aren't and stuff like that..

Answer 4

You are young it is a time when many have self doubt... you must discover who u are, what u love, where is your bliss... look everywhere then work hard to achieve it... surround yourself with others who truly enjoy your company then u will know more about your true desires and passions in life.

Answer 5

Yea, I feel that sometimes, everybody does. It comes and goes you know.

Those things you mentioned aren't reasons one should feel messed up however...life can be messier than that, it usually is.

Maybe you should start doin something new, something different, meet new people, go see new places, practice a new sport...and don't feel uncool, feel unique.

Answer 6

Everyone have their own weaknesses and strengths. Don't think that you have some weaknesses then you're not cool. Think more positive things, think more about your strengths. You should have more confidence on yourself that you're not that bad.

Answer 7

We all feel the same at times. Just relax and see the nice things you have in life.



Good parents



internet connection



money



happiness in long run



Chill out and do something you enjoy doing

Answer 8

Look at your photo.. The massege you left for your sons and daughters inshaAllah...



I also save my cell no. on the cell itself....! Call yourself Muslim and be proud of that.. do what you love.. that'll be your career...



Don't look at the dark side...



Look at your avatar's photo when it's between the hands of your grandsons and daughters telling them your massege.. telling them that:



"I was here.. I existed.. i was young, I was happy.. and some one in this world cared enough for me to take my photo..."



:)

Answer 9

ur probably under stress, take a holiday.

and who cares about a hair cut, it will grow!

Answer 10

just be thankful for what your good at.

Answer 11

mental health section?

Answer 12

Jesus, thank the lord i aint your head!