How can you stop gang violence?
The same way you can motivate
parents to love their children.
When you figure that out,
the education will come naturally.
This entire problem is about love
and caring. Parents do not love
their children because nobody
loved them. They do not know.
These kids have just been
born like cattle to people
who could care less about
a new life or whether it
'makes it' in the world or not!
The lack of love breeds the
lack of caring. Nobody cares,
because it doesn't do any
good to care.
They are stuck in a hopeless
downward swirl. They can't go
up, because they never
even LOOK up!
It is in all humanity to seek
love and attention, a positive
feeling, and a sense of
belonging....ta da!....the gang!
The 'belonging' may be the
only time the child has ever
had a sense of being a 'part'
of something.
The saying about strength in
numbers, is true - they gain
their strength from knowing
that they are hooked up with
people like themselves.
They all have something in common.
The bathe their emotions in the
sense of being a part of something.
They feel they must take the harsh
treatment of the 'leaders'
(parent symbols) because that
is just like they had at home
from their parent (s?) and older
stronger siblings.
They have only been taught
survival. (and that is self-taught)
If indeed they have survived!
Quite a few don't! Not love.
Find a way to make mothers
LOVE their children (and it is
NOT by giving them money!) and
you will not have the problem of
gangs, or lack of education.
Any mother who loves her child
will see that they get an education
so that they can enjoy a richer life.
We actually have the same problem
with people with a higher standard
of living. Even they go through the
'motions', they do not have genuine
love for their children and they are
just as lost as the gang members.
It is just that their parents 'buy them off'
with trips to the mall and camp and
anything else to 'get the kids out
of their hair!'
We have lost love. LOVE
breeds understanding and
caring and nurturing and
everything that this world
is lacking.
How can you teach love?
How can you legislate love?
How can you penetrate
and saturate love into the
areas that it is needed?
There is only one way that
I have ever known about, and
you don't want to hear about
that........